While people in love initially can't get enough of each other, over time everyday life becomes more and more important and tests whether the connection really lasts.
If you want to have a long-term, fulfilling and balanced relationship, you should definitely take time for your partner, give them your full attention and sometimes put your smartphone aside. Share beautiful moments together, especially when they involve activities that both can be equally enthusiastic about.
“Single people often look for a partner like this who is on the same wavelength for a long time and ultimately in vain,” says Markus Poniewas, an experienced consultant at the dating agency PV-Exklusiv (www.pv-exklusiv.de). The company, based in Düsseldorf and Mönchengladbach, is active throughout the German-speaking region and has been successfully bringing people of quality together for many years - for a common future. It is therefore advisable to place your love fate in the hands of a reputable dating agency. The experienced experts conduct thoughtful conversations with singles who want a relationship and find out what they really want from a relationship. “This is the only way to bring two people together who really fit together and meet on equal terms.”
The desire for connection is in our genes. That's why it's important, once you've found your partner, to talk about your own needs and not keep them secret. In the long run, this can only lead to frustration and misunderstanding and ultimately to arguments. Lovers should not shy away from confrontation. Because as wonderful as harmony may be, a decent argument clears the air like a thunderstorm. In addition, make-up sex is often particularly beautiful and intense and can be really good for a relationship.
“Anyone who is in a relationship should pay attention to their partner, but not constantly revolve around them like the sun revolves around the earth. Dependencies, whether material or emotional, will sooner or later inevitably become a burden on any connection, no matter how stable it is,” warns Markus Poniewas to everyone who is looking for long-term happiness. That's why he recommends pursuing your own interests, hobbies and professional goals again after the initial infatuation phase, in which you would like to curl up at home together. “If you don’t experience anything, you won’t have anything to share with your partner and will inevitably become less exciting in the long run. Couples should therefore make closeness without tightness a priority in their relationship. Freedom based on trust is an essential cornerstone for a strong foundation of the relationship.”
Distance is an essential ingredient for desire and longing. Anyone who is not constantly available, approachable but independent will always be a point of attraction for their partner that is worth discovering anew every day. This also keeps the desire for each other awake. “As professional matchmakers, we know very well what to look out for when looking for true love. And as objective and experienced relationship experts, we can also provide advice as we continue to get to know each other.”