Love is part of human life. Markus Poniewas, well-known consultant and managing director of PV-Exklusiv emphasizes that the big picture also matters in love.
The alarm clock rings, we get up. The first look in the mirror – a friendly face looks back at us. It's familiar to us. We make breakfast, follow our usual routine, shower, get dressed and go to work. How nice it would be if there was a partner we could kiss goodbye! But there is no one there. And that suddenly overshadows the morning that started so well.
“We drift through the day, it's quickly lunchtime, we talk to our colleagues about this and that, push forward with our projects, complete our duties. In the evening we sometimes feel more and sometimes less pleasantly exhausted from the day's work. “The person who feels really happy is someone who has a partner at his side who starts the day with him and asks him about his experiences in the evening,” says Markus Poniewas, well-known consultant and managing director of PV-Exklusiv (www.pv-exklusiv.de).
Even in relationships, everyday life returns after the initial infatuation
The company, based in Düsseldorf and Mönchengladbach, is active throughout the German-speaking region and has been successfully bringing people of quality together for many years - for a shared future. PV-Exklusiv has consistently specialized in upscale clientele and real personalities: academics, entrepreneurs, executives and people of high standards are the focus of the dating agency, which has been successfully operating on the market for many years. PV-Exklusiv accompanies customers individually and personally until the placement is successful, which can usually be completed within three months.
He knows that even in relationships, everyday life returns after the initial infatuation. “And that’s completely okay and normal,” he says. However, he does not mean that love should be trivialized and located in everyday life. “Love is the salt in the soup of life, we know that from our own experience, but also from the large and small stories that have a lasting impact on our image of love.” By this he means Shakespeare, but also Hollywood, authors like Rosamunde Pilcher and Hera Lind and even the New Testament. “When the initial excitement and curiosity has subsided, the relationship changes, the feelings become more subtle but deeper - then it becomes clear whether the intense start has a basis or not,” says Poniewas.
Love does not need constant exuberance
In their sensitive conversations with experienced experts, many of his reputable dating agency's customers mention the idea of a retired couple strolling through the park hand in hand, sitting on a bench and feeding ducks in harmony, and who can look back on a lifetime full of moments together. “Many singles, however, also have an idiosyncratic idea of what love means to them. They believe and want this love to transcend everyday life, that it is never everyday. They should be aware - and we always strongly advise this - that love and feelings are generally not constant. They move up and down in sometimes light, sometimes stormy waves without ever disappearing. And love can tolerate this wave.”
Markus Poniewas emphasizes that it is always the big picture that counts, even when it comes to love. “Love does not need constant exuberance, it even needs the everyday. Love also means taking part in each other’s everyday lives.” This also applies to the goodbye kiss and the question: “Darling, how was your day?”