The dating agency did a great job. Now two singles are facing an exciting event: their first meeting. But the experts’ work doesn’t stop there. They also provide their customers with advice and support during the preparation and after the date.
Before the first date, men and women often struggle with a number of insecurities. In addition to normal worries about whether the other person likes them and, conversely, whether they like it too, they are plagued by questions that will only become important in the future together. What rules should be followed at the first meeting? What challenges do singles ultimately face in a long-term relationship? And how do you ensure that neither partner wants to think outside the box and cheat?
“The answer sounds too simple to be true: partners who live in a happy relationship don’t cheat,” says Markus Poniewas, an experienced consultant at the dating agency PV-Exklusiv (www.pv-exklusiv.de). The company, based in Düsseldorf and Mönchengladbach, is active throughout the German-speaking region and has been successfully bringing people of quality together for many years - for a common future.
According to experts, men are easy to please as long as the woman knows what he needs to be happy. A man wants to feel good first and foremost. He needs sex, opportunities to retreat, good food, challenges, praise and recognition as well as fun and freedom based on trust. He doesn't appreciate too much emancipation, but he does appreciate it if the woman at his side always remains a challenge. He must always be given the chance to please her, to be her personal hero and to be needed by her.
“It is well known that sex with the same partner over and over again can become a bit boring after years. It is important that the partnership does not fall asleep. New shared challenges are the spice of love, even in sex,” says Poniewas, who has already brought countless happy couples together with his agency. It's important to break the monotony and come up with new games to surprise, seduce and enchant each other. This is not exhausting, but rather a good opportunity to open up and get to know yourself and your partner from a completely different, new side, even after many years together. As a result, both find joy and fulfillment and, at the same time, encourage each other to achieve new heights.
Men, on the other hand, should provide surprises and maintain shared rituals. This can be a bouquet of flowers for no specific reason, a home-cooked romantic dinner, he can organize tickets to the theater or opera or book a city or wellness trip. But it's also the little things: an unexpected declaration of love via WhatsApp never fails to have an impact. Small surprises and self-proclaimed traditions that are maintained keep the love of life together as well as activities.
A woman will feel comfortable at her partner's side if she can talk to him about her problems and feels that he is genuinely interested in listening to her and is willing to work with her to find a solution. She wants to feel understood with her feelings and feel safe and secure by his side. Basically, a relationship can work in the long term if both partners are willing to accept and accept give and take. You don't have to earn love. Love is.
That's why cheating is a huge abuse of trust from which both partners suffer. Even those who cheat don't feel comfortable in their own skin in the long term. He has to lie, always be on guard and in the end runs the risk of losing both partners.