Men are generally more reserved when it comes to hiring a dating agency. Your hunting instinct plays a role. But there is a trend in younger generations away from online to analog search for a partner.
Who do you think is more likely to take the step into dating - women or men? What has long been frowned upon and not very ladylike in discos or bars is common practice in this case - because it is actually women who usually turn to dating agencies wanting a partner. Men, on the other hand, still like to take on the classic hunting role - this necessity is suddenly lost when reputable agencies come into play. In addition, men are generally still more conservative and classic and cannot easily say goodbye to the idea of finding their partner the classic way. Ultimately, it may be more of a sign of failure for him because he admits that he can't do it alone.
But more and more singles live, especially in big cities. And usually not because that is their expressed wish. But because their work and life worlds are moving ever faster and there is hardly any time to get to know a person so that a decision for a relationship and a life together can be made. In addition, anonymity increases in cities: the more people live there, the more people you know - but the fewer close ties are built.
People want a stable relationship
“Men in the 45 to 65 age group in particular have a different approach and belong to a generation that grew up without much technology and dating apps. At this age, they have usually just been through a divorce and are happy to live it up afterwards. A man lives differently after a divorce than a woman. But he also gets to the point where he wants to get back to it and have a stable relationship,” says Markus Poniewas, an experienced consultant at the dating agency PV-Exklusiv (www.pv-exklusiv.de). The company, based in Düsseldorf and Mönchengladbach, is active throughout the German-speaking region and has been successfully bringing people of quality together for many years - for a common future.
And then reputable dating agencies come into play. They stand for discreetly and carefully bringing together two people who really fit together - but who almost certainly wouldn't have met otherwise because they don't share a circle of friends, don't live in the same part of town, or don't go to the same places. It is important to take into account that the “sports-loving general practitioner” does not necessarily have to share the leisure activities of the “active yoga teacher”. Based on his many years of experience, Markus Poniewas knows: “To determine whether two people are really a match, the consultants have to find out in a personal conversation what is really important to the single people and how they imagine their lives. Only when this has been clarified can an agency decide whether the two should get to know each other. And it's doubly worthwhile for men to go to these agencies: Not only can they save themselves nights in bars that are too crowded or clubs that are too loud, they can also expect a number of great and interesting women who also rely on the reputable dating agency. “
The matchmaker can also provide his customers with advice and support. After a long marriage, many people no longer know how to flirt or woo the other person - and they don't know what dating options are open to them. For many people who refuse to get to know someone over the Internet, a dating agency is ideal.
By the way: Young men, on the other hand, are often at home in the world of dating. They often already have some experience using relevant dating apps. But even in this age group there is a trend towards analog search for a partner through a reputable agency.