The first date is usually preceded by an intensive search for a partner. Markus Poniewas from PV-Exklusiv explains how singles best behave when they meet their potential dream partner?
Change is as desired as it is feared. You feel comfortable and safe with familiar thought patterns and behaviors. This also makes finding a partner so difficult for many people, especially in the digital age. “Today it is more complicated than ever. Before online dating existed, people met with friends, in sports clubs, at parties, in discos or in bars. There was only one way to make initial contact: immediately and spontaneously. Those who were shy, indecisive or reserved usually lost out,” says Markus Poniewas, consultant and managing director of PV-Exklusiv. The dating agency PV-Exklusiv (www.pv-exklusiv.de), based in the Düsseldorf region, is active throughout the German-speaking region and has been successfully bringing together people of quality for many years. The VIP dating agency helps you find a trusted partner for life.
The dating carousel is spinning faster and faster
This has completely changed thanks to the numerous opportunities to get to know someone on the Internet. Singles can meet 30 or 40 men or women online in one evening, chat with five potential partners at the same time, sort them out just as quickly and match the next person. “The dating carousel is spinning ever faster and leaves people who are looking for true love with little room to breathe. “These erratic online encounters also unsettle many people,” emphasizes Markus Poniewas. The solution is to contact a reputable dating agency. This supports singles in their search for a partner expertly and with great sensitivity. In a personal conversation, the experts in love matters find out the likes, wishes and dislikes of the single person, can get a complete picture of the person and thus bring together two people who really suit each other.
Good basis for intensive discussions
An agency also helps you leave your comfort zone. Singles over the age of 30 in particular have usually already been in a long-term relationship or have even been married. “These previous relationships, the beginning, course and end are not topics for the first date, nor for subsequent meetings,” advises Markus Poniewas. “After all, everyone has a past, but it is over. They may want to build a future with the person they are currently meeting. So they should tell about themselves and ask the other person.” Good, intensive conversations are a basis for finding out whether the mutual expectations and demands that are inevitably made can be met. “In addition, interesting details always come to light during the conversation, which we can then take into account when searching. This isn’t possible online, but it may be precisely this point that determines the successful search for a partner,” says Markus Poniewas.
Anyone who leaves their comfort zone can find a partner for life
“However, fixating on certain characteristics reduces the chances of finding the right partner,” warns Markus Poniewas. “So they can’t recognize their dream partner, even if he’s standing in front of them.” Demands and expectations are always a thing when looking for a partner anyway. “We regularly experience in dating that criteria that were declared absolutely necessary in advance can suddenly be neglected when there is a concrete demand. A dating agency like PV-Exklusiv helps to break out of these old patterns and move towards a new life. Anyone who leaves their comfort zone can not only find a partner for life, but also develop themselves and have new experiences.”