Many millions of people are registered on the numerous online dating platforms - but this is often the wrong channel for a real long-term relationship, says Markus Poniewas from the exclusive dating agency PV-Exklusiv.
There's a lot going on in the digital world these days. And that's not bad at all. The Internet creates more or less unlimited communication options, enables access to a wide range of content at any time and from almost anywhere in the world and connects people in every corner of the globe. In this respect, commerce and many services have already moved to the Internet - be it buying a car or getting legal advice.
Looking for a partner has also become a typical topic on the Internet. Many millions of people are registered on the numerous online dating platforms and are looking for a partner for life. They put personal details online in the hope that they will appeal to the right person. And this hope is understandable, given how many people are now crowding around on the portals.
“But practice shows that these expectations are often not met and that many people have already experienced bitter disappointments on these portals. For example, they do not receive serious inquiries, but are approached by people who just want to test their market value for self-affirmation and/or who also have unfair intentions,” says Markus Poniewas, an experienced consultant at the dating agency PV-Exklusiv (www.pv-exklusiv.de). The company, based in Düsseldorf and Mönchengladbach, is active throughout the German-speaking region and has been successfully bringing people of quality together for many years – for a shared future.
This has also been scientifically confirmed. So the sociologist Dr. Kai Dröge pointed out in an interview with WDR (Westdeutscher Rundfunk) (www1.wdr.de/wissen/mensch/tag-der-virtuellen-liebe-100.html) that the abundance of offers “suggests that you are still someone could find better. This often leads to people meeting a lot of people for a long time, always new ones. And at the slightest disappointment, immediately move on to the next person. It then becomes somewhat repetitive and you become dull. In the process, people lose their ability to even build a relationship with a single person. But that's exactly what love is all about: building a special relationship with a person. This ability is undermined over time.”
“For a serious and exclusive dating agency like PV-Exklusiv The only thing that counts is the genuine relationship between people, because this is the only thing that brings long-term happiness, satisfaction and health. That's why: Advice is also the be-all and end-all in dating. Without good advice, you can't accompany people on their way to finding the right partner for life," emphasizes Markus Poniewas. This advice is only possible on a personal level, where the matchmaker and the single trust each other and also talk about discreet matters - which of course are never made public, but are integrated into the subsequent search for a partner. Because this is the only way it is possible to bring together two people who really fit together.
http://guru-magazin.de/2019/03/02/partnersuche-online-dating-plattform-nur-als-ausgangspunkt/