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Outside the box: How leaving your comfort zone helps when looking for a partner

Change often evokes mixed feelings – it is both desired and feared. Especially in the world of dating, sticking to familiar patterns of thinking and behavior can be a challenge. 

The comfort zone – an area characterized by personal experiences, routines and habits in which security and well-being are hidden. But as individual and familiar as this area may be, it harbors a pitfall: the limitation of new experiences. “In our conversations with customers, we always notice how deeply anchored old behavioral patterns are and how much they influence our actions,” explains Markus Poniewas. The well-known consultant has been working very successfully in dating for many years and, as managing director, knows PV-Exklusivwhat is important when it comes to dating. The partner agency PV-Exklusiv (www.pv-exklusiv.de) based in Düsseldorf is active throughout the German-speaking region and has been successfully bringing people of class together for many years – for a common future.

Growth and the development of your own potential

He describes the comfort zone as a whirlpool that tempts us to act and think in similar ways over and over again - a tendency that can be fatal, especially in the context of looking for a partner. The comfort zone is a double-faced friend: on the one hand it offers protection and familiarity, on the other hand it inhibits the growth and development of one's own potential. For single people who long for a relationship, this means that sticking with familiar patterns rarely paves the way to new happiness in love. “If you settle in your comfort zone, you will hardly meet your dream partner there,” emphasizes Markus Poniewas. He talks about the tendency to keep running into similar guys with whom a relationship has already failed in the past.

Stepping out of your comfort zone is associated with fear and stress because familiar strategies and patterns suddenly no longer work. But this is exactly where the work of PV-Exklusiv to: Through individual advice and personal conversations, the matchmakers uncover wishes, hopes and preferences and initiate a process that breaks through old ways of thinking and acting. “We accompany our clients in breaking new ground, which can lead to unexpected and enriching experiences – and most likely also to the right partner,” explains Poniewas.

Experience of breaking new ground

Even though change doesn't happen overnight and there is no guarantee of immediate success, daring to leave your comfort zone is often the first step towards a happy relationship. Clinging to the security of what you know is rarely the solution to the longing for a fulfilling partnership.

The experience of breaking new ground enriches not only the search for a partner, but also life as a whole. “Leaving your comfort zone leads to more vitality and joy in life,” says Markus Poniewas. You discover new interests, get to know a variety of people and open yourself up to possibilities that previously seemed unimaginable. Stepping out of the usual framework not only promotes the chance to find a partner for life, but also personal development and experiencing new experiences. PV-Exklusiv acts as a competent companion who helps his clients break old patterns and expand the horizons of their search for a partner.

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